challenges and difficulties
Paradis doubts her own intelligence and mental capacities, and she may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Vanessa is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for her.
Vanessa Paradis takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Paradis a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Vanessa Paradis and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Paradis will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Her faith, optimism, and sense of possibilities are tempered by much caution, and often doubt or skepticism as well. Whatever hopes or visions Vanessa Paradis has for her life are firmly held in check by her sense of reality. At times she may wish for more freedom, but Vanessa also fears it and hang back. Vanessa Paradis may blame practical limitations or some external condition or the prevailing Authority for her own inhibitions.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Vanessa Paradis instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Vanessa Paradis needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Vanessa Paradis has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Vanessa Paradis needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Vanessa Paradis needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her dealings with money, financial security, tangible assets and possessions that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above are ones Vanessa Paradis needs to integrate in tangible ways: how she makes a living, building assets and a secure material base, what she does with the resources she has. Vanessa Paradis should try to avoid over involvement or entanglements with other people's money matters, legal business, and personal affairs.
The following are specific activities that will support Vanessa Paradis in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Paradis, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Vanessa Paradis should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Vanessa Paradis.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 2nd house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter