Vanessa del Rio
challenges and difficulties
Vanessa del Rio takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Vanessa enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Vanessa del Rio also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her childhood or her relationship with her parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Vanessa from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Vanessa del Rio feels that she was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether she actually was or not. Her early life - at least as del Rio remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of her needs and feelings. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Vanessa del Rio needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Vanessa accomplish this task.
Vanessa del Rio becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, del Rio is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Her outlook on life is inclined to be somewhat negative and Vanessa del Rio tries to avoid relationships and social interaction as much as possible. There is a morose side to Vanessa's nature that makes her feel that no one cares about her, that life is difficult and perhaps not even worthwhile.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Vanessa del Rio instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Vanessa del Rio needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Vanessa del Rio's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how del Rio's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of del Rio's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support del Rio's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress she is likely to become overly focused on herself and her own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" del Rio's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Vanessa del Rio needs to strike a balance between doing for herself and doing for others, by discovering how del Rio's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Vanessa del Rio has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. del Rio will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Vanessa del Rio tends to be fascinated by new and obscure things and may be strongly attracted to the occult. She may contribute to the spontaneous forming of groups and may gain spiritual enlightenment together with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Sun/MC
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus/Neptune