Tori Spelling
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Tori Spelling only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Spelling.

Tori has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Tori Spelling has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Tori Spelling to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Tori Spelling has a great deal of emotional depth.

Tori Spelling may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Spelling has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Tori Spelling wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Tori is restless and something of a wanderer.

Tori Spelling has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Tori out for help, sympathy or advice. Tori Spelling is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

In a love relationship, Tori Spelling is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Tori likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Tori Spelling becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Tori Spelling's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Tori Spelling needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Spelling finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Tori Spelling and she invests a lot of her energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Tori shares her affection with the people in her family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for her. Being at home makes Spelling happy.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Tori Spelling puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Tori Spelling and she is not happy without a love partner. Spelling can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

Tori Spelling tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Tori frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Tori Spelling also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Tori Spelling loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Spelling may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Tori Spelling tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Tori has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.

Others may get the impression that Tori Spelling considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Tori Spelling would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Square Jupiter

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 4th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Opposition Neptune/MC