Tonya Harding in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Tonya Harding has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Harding is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Tonya Harding seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Harding tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Tonya's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Tonya Harding substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Harding gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Tonya Harding makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Tonya Harding needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.
She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Tonya Harding is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Tonya has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Tonya - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.
Gregarious and fun loving, she is always out to have a good time. Tonya Harding tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Tonya Harding to say no, especially when Harding's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, she is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.
There is another side to Tonya Harding as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Tonya Harding was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Tonya Harding feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Tonya's emotional well-being.
Tonya Harding has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this she is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Tonya Harding also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Tonya Harding is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.
In love relationships, Tonya Harding desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Tonya "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Harding can be very demanding of her love partner. Tonya Harding tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Tonya Harding is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Tonya Harding loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Harding needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner and she wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to her beloved. Tonya Harding also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Tonya's nature and Tonya Harding feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Harding. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Tonya Harding has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Tonya's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Tonya Harding is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Harding is to being left out or unappreciated.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Tonya Harding and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Tonya allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Tonya Harding, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 11th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Opposition Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Opposition Sun/Venus
Moon Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 5th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn
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