challenges and difficulties
She is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing herself freely and openly is not easy for Glover. Toni Glover tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of her "performance" is an important task for Toni.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Toni. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Toni Glover is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Glover wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Glover is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Toni Glover is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Toni Glover instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Toni Glover needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Toni Glover needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Toni's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Glover's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Toni Glover to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Toni Glover is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Toni Glover needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Toni Glover to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Toni Glover has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Toni Glover back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in her life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Venus