challenges and difficulties
Collette doubts her own intelligence and mental capacities, and she may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Toni is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for her.
It may be difficult for Toni Collette to play spontaneously or just let her hair down, for she tends to inhibit that side of her by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression she is making.
Toni may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for she wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though she may indeed be outstanding, Toni Collette also needs to learn to relax and enjoy herself more.
Because she lacks self-confidence, Toni Collette has the feeling that her luck has abandoned her. She is inclined to sit and wait for the right opportunities to come along, place too much emphasis on wishful thinking, and then get disappointed when nothing happens.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Toni Collette instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Toni Collette needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Toni Collette has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Toni Collette needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Toni Collette needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is deep within herself, as Toni Collette faces her own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of her life that Toni Collette keeps hidden from public view where she is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 12th house