Tommy Sands
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Tommy Sands has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Sands is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Tommy Sands seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Sands tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Tommy's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Tommy Sands substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Tommy Sands has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Sands also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Tommy, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Tommy Sands often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

Tommy has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Sands craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Sands and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Tommy Sands is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Sands' emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Tommy Sands is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His sense of reality is a bit weak; Sands tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Tommy may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

Sensitive and sentimental, Tommy Sands is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Sands to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Tommy Sands seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Tommy likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Tommy Sands craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Tommy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Sands.

Tommy has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Sands experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Tommy Sands is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 6th house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 8th house

Venus Conjunct Pluto