Tommy Lee Jones challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Jones. Tommy Lee Jones tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Tommy Lee.
He is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Tommy Lee Jones tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Jones withholds his thoughts and opinions until he has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Tommy Lee's silence discomforts others.
His mental concentration is very good but his breadth of understanding may not be.
Because of his inner reserve and basic shyness, Tommy Lee Jones appears to lack the ability to adapt and is a bit inhibited when dealing with other people. His approach is somewhat serious and it is difficult for Tommy Lee to face the public.
Basically shy, Tommy Lee may become a bit inhibited when talking with other people. Tommy Lee Jones tends to withdraw from others and likes to live a humble, quiet life in seclusion. He may get involved with a group of a secretive nature, although Jones is not generally one to join groups.
He is susceptible to deception by others and may encounter people who dissuade him from his objectives and try to use his vulnerability to their advantage. Tommy Lee Jones should watch his relationships very carefully so he will not get seriously hurt or disappointed.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tommy Lee Jones instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Tommy Lee Jones needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Tommy Lee Jones needs to take what he has learned (either through formal education or his own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Tommy Lee's quality of life or that of persons in his world, is of little real value. Putting Jones' understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in his daily relationships, and in the multiple choices he makes every day, will enable Tommy Lee Jones to really test his belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Tommy Lee Jones is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Tommy Lee Jones needs to cultivate his ability to live in the present!
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Tommy Lee Jones between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Tommy Lee Jones seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Jones' task.
The following are specific activities that will support Tommy Lee Jones in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Jones, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Tommy Lee Jones should be willing to become more of a free thinker, to experiment and change, to loosen his ties to tradition and the known and to allow for new developments. He needs to practice getting involved in an area involving new techniques, rapid changes and innovation. Tommy Lee can be part of the avant-garde promoting such changes - be it in science, music or social relationships. Tommy Lee Jones has to be willing to be different and perhaps to be considered eccentric or odd.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Uranus
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