Tom Selleck
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Tom Selleck inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Tom wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Selleck lavishes on those he cares about. Tom Selleck has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Tom Selleck hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Selleck depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Tom's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Tom Selleck may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

There is a side to Tom Selleck that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Selleck can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Selleck. If Tom's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Tom Selleck can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Tom is particularly prone to.

Tom Selleck has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Tom Selleck has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when he is with people. Tom has the ability to win people over by what he says and how he says it.

Tom has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Tom Selleck and he may have an early desire for marriage.

Tom Selleck has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to him. He is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and he loves to give and receive social invitations.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Tom Selleck gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Tom Selleck may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Tom feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Tom Selleck idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

For Tom Selleck, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Tom greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Tom Selleck needs to beware of.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Tom Selleck cannot or will not hold onto it. Tom Selleck has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Selleck's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Tom freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Selleck could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Selleck also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Tom Selleck just wants to have a good time.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 7th house

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Venus

Moon Opposition Venus/Mars

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Opposition Jupiter