Tom Jones
in Relationships

Tom does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Tom Jones would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Tom Jones avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Jones. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Tom Jones cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Tom Jones has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Tom takes risks on impulse or whim.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tom does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Tom Jones is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Tom Jones tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.

Sensitive and sentimental, Tom Jones is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Jones to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Tom Jones seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Tom likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

When he cares about someone, Tom Jones likes to serve them by doing small thoughtful favors, helping them, or doing something tangible to show his affection.

Tom Jones has also considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Tom is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in some way.

Tom Jones is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Tom Jones pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Tom Jones to be able to deeply respect his partner. Tom looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Tom Jones is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

His feelings are very powerful and Tom Jones expresses them vividly. His romantic relationships are likely to be very passionate and deep. Tom Jones has a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships and may be driven by inner compulsion rather than rational thinking.

His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Tom Jones loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 5th house

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Conjunct Uranus/Pluto

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 6th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Conjunct Moon/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune