Tom Harmon
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Tom Harmon only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Harmon.

Thomas has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Tom Harmon has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Tom Harmon to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Tom Harmon has a great deal of emotional depth.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Tom Harmon a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Thomas' past are especially dear to him.

Tom Harmon may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Tom Harmon tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Tom Harmon becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Tom Harmon is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Tom Harmon also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Harmon is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Tom Harmon thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Intimacy does not come easily to Tom Harmon and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Harmon does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Tom Harmon needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

His personal relationships are very affectionate. Thomas enjoys the company of other people and has a harmonious attitude toward them. Tom Harmon also has a sense of art and may decorate his surroundings very artistically.

Tom Harmon tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Mars

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.