Tom Conti
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Tom Conti denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Tom Conti needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Tom Conti also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Tom Conti has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Tom sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Tom Conti is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Tom wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Tom Conti has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Tom's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Conti is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Tom Conti feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Conti can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Tom's emotional indulgence - Conti tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Conti tends to be high-strung and impatient. Tom Conti knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for Tom Conti to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Tom Conti cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Conti's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Tom at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Tom Conti is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Tom Conti may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Tom desires.
Conti is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Tom Conti is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Tom uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Tom Conti does.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Tom Conti puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Tom Conti and he is not happy without a love partner. Conti can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
His tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Tom Conti possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Tom may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Tom Conti may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
He is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with his profession. At times Tom Conti is apt to consider his work as a substitute for a partner, but he could also show some narcissistic tendencies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 1st house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Mars/MC
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 1st house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Mars/MC
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