Tom Wilkinson
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Tom Wilkinson has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Wilkinson is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Tom Wilkinson seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Wilkinson tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Tom's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Tom Wilkinson substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Tom Wilkinson has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Tom sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Tom Wilkinson is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Tom wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Tom Wilkinson often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

There is another side to Tom Wilkinson as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Tom Wilkinson has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Wilkinson would react more intensely. Tom is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

Tom Wilkinson has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Tom looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Tom Wilkinson must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.

In love relationships, Tom Wilkinson desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Tom "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Wilkinson can be very demanding of his love partner. Tom Wilkinson tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Tom Wilkinson is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Tom Wilkinson craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Tom loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Wilkinson.

Tom Wilkinson experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Tom Wilkinson has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Tom Wilkinson can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 1st house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Pluto