Tobey Maguire in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Tobey should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Maguire often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Maguire's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Tobey Maguire insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Tobey does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Tobey Maguire feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Maguire depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Tobey's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Tobey Maguire may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Tobey Maguire is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Tobey has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Tobey - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
Generally sunny and optimistic, Tobey Maguire has a cheering effect on those around him. Tobey likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential ingredients for his emotional well-being.
There is another side to Tobey Maguire as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Maguire can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Tobey Maguire puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Maguire may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Tobey Maguire might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
Tobey Maguire tends to be a loner and is inclined to suppress his feelings. Other people think they know Tobey, but they never really do. At times he may withdraw too much and may alienate others. Tobey Maguire is also somewhat biased and may be torn by inner conflicts.
Tobey Maguire has a somewhat excitable disposition and his moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Tobey Maguire has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. He is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive him.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Tobey Maguire cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Tobey wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Tobey Maguire is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Tobey Maguire craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Maguire enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Maguire is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Tobey Maguire is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Tobey uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Tobey Maguire does.
Tobey Maguire appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Tobey Maguire will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
He is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into his creations. But his emotional state is easily upset and Maguire can be a fanatic in love relationships. Tobey Maguire tends to be possessive and he has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.
Others may get the impression that Tobey Maguire considers personal relationships not very important, as he may pretend to have feelings for someone when he really does not. Tobey Maguire would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 7th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Sextile Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Moon Opposition Sun/Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/Uranus
Venus in Leo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Venus Opposition Neptune/MC
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