Tila Tequila in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Tila Tequila rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Tequila's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Tequila may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Tila difficult to live with. Tila Tequila needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Tila Tequila may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Tequila has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Tila Tequila wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Tila is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Tila Tequila does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Tequila tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Tila Tequila enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tila does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Tila Tequila is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Her thinking and acting are strongly influenced by her feelings. Tila has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times she may need to slow down. Tila Tequila loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.
In love relationships, Tila Tequila seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Tila, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Tila Tequila supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Tila that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Tila Tequila is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Tila Tequila often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Tila. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Tila Tequila may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Tila Tequila - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Tila Tequila to be able to deeply respect her partner. Tila looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Tila Tequila is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.
She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Tila Tequila yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Tequila frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Tila Tequila does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 9th house
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Conjunct Neptune
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