Thomas Dekker
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Thomas Dekker has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Dekker expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Thomas Dekker dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Thomas abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Thomas Dekker inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Thomas is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Dekker.
Thomas Dekker becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Dekker feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Thomas Dekker has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Thomas sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Thomas Dekker is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Thomas wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.
Thomas Dekker tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Thomas feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Thomas Dekker also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Dekker to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Thomas Dekker may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Thomas Dekker also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Thomas Dekker expects, and draws out, the best from people and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Although Dekker gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Thomas Dekker to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
There is another side to Thomas Dekker as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Thomas Dekker has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Dekker would react more intensely. Thomas is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
In addition to Thomas' rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Thomas Dekker craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Dekker rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Thomas Dekker craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Dekker also loves to feel free and unfettered.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Thomas Dekker values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Thomas desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Dekker, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Thomas Dekker appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Dekker is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Thomas Dekker thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Thomas Dekker experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Thomas Dekker has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Thomas Dekker can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Thomas Dekker has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 1st house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars
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