Terry Melcher
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Terry Melcher only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Melcher.

Terry has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Terry Melcher has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Terry Melcher to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Terry Melcher has a great deal of emotional depth.

Terry Melcher has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Melcher also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Terry, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Terry Melcher either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Terry Melcher tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Melcher's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Terry Melcher will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Terry Melcher may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Terry could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Terry Melcher values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Terry desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Melcher, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Terry Melcher appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Terry is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Melcher places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Terry Melcher feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Terry Melcher puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Terry Melcher and he is not happy without a love partner. Melcher can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

Terry Melcher appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Terry Melcher will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 6th house

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Opposition Mars/Uranus

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Trine Jupiter