Terri Lyne Carrington
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Terri Lyne Carrington only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Carrington.
Terri Lyne has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Terri Lyne Carrington has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Terri Lyne Carrington to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Terri Lyne Carrington has a great deal of emotional depth.
Terri Lyne Carrington often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Carrington thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Terri Lyne is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Terri Lyne Carrington has good psychological insight into others.
Terri Lyne Carrington genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support her. It is relatively easy for Terri Lyne Carrington to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in her life. Children are very important to Carrington also.
Terri Lyne Carrington has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Carrington would react more intensely. Terri Lyne is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.
In addition to Terri Lyne's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Terri Lyne Carrington craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Carrington rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Terri Lyne Carrington does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Carrington tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Terri Lyne Carrington enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Terri Lyne Carrington often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Terri Lyne Carrington is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Terri Lyne has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. Terri Lyne Carrington may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because she is so emotionally invested in it.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Terri Lyne Carrington is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Terri Lyne Carrington also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Carrington is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Terri Lyne Carrington is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Terri Lyne uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Terri Lyne Carrington does.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Terri Lyne Carrington and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Terri Lyne allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Terri Lyne Carrington, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
When it comes to love relationships, Carrington is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Terri Lyne Carrington has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Terri Lyne acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Terri Lyne Carrington falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Terri Lyne to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Carrington's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Terri Lyne Carrington, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.
Terri Lyne has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. Her love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Carrington experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Terri Lyne Carrington is always profoundly changed by her love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. She is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things she cares about.
It is easy for Terri Lyne Carrington to show others the love she feels for them and she talks freely to them about her feelings. Terri Lyne likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify her environment as quickly as possible, once she has come up with an idea to do so.
Terri Lyne does not hold back with her charms and shows everyone what she has to offer. Her personality is quite dazzling and enables Terri Lyne Carrington to attract many people. Her need for affection is strong; and Carrington will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Sextile Pluto
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
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