Ted McGinley in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Ted McGinley only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for McGinley.
Ted has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Ted McGinley has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Ted McGinley to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Ted McGinley has a great deal of emotional depth.
Ted McGinley often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when McGinley thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Ted is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Ted McGinley has good psychological insight into others.
Ted McGinley craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Ted McGinley to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to McGinley. His domestic life may be very unstable - but McGinley likes it that way.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Ted McGinley enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Ted wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Ted is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Ted McGinley feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Ted McGinley in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. McGinley is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Ted McGinley at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Ted McGinley tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Ted frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Ted McGinley also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Ted McGinley loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. McGinley may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Ted McGinley loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Ted McGinley causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
Venus Opposition Saturn/Asc.
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