challenges and difficulties
She is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing herself freely and openly is not easy for Dexters. Tanja Dexters tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of her "performance" is an important task for Tanja.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Tanja. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Tanja Dexters is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Dexters wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Tanja Dexters becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Dexters is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Somewhat shy, Tanja finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Tanja Dexters to establish relationships, she would rather be by herself. Tanja likes everything simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tanja Dexters instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Tanja Dexters needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Tanja stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Tanja Dexters has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Tanja Dexters feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Tanja Dexters calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Tanja Dexters needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her public life and career that Tanja Dexters is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Dexters' reputation and standing in her community or professional circle, as well as how Tanja Dexters achieves her important life goals and aspirations.
Not at all selfish, Tanja Dexters has the ability to share the joy she feels with other people. Tanja seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
Dexters constantly seems to be under tremendous pressure and she wants to achieve record performances. Having a strong desire to accomplish immense tasks in team-work with others, Tanja Dexters has a tendency to demand too much of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 8th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Venus/Asc.
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Venus/Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/Pluto