challenges and difficulties
Lambiel both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know him intimately does not come easily to Stéphane, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Stéphane Lambiel is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Lambiel.
It may be difficult for Stéphane Lambiel to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Stéphane may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Stéphane Lambiel also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
Lambiel forges ahead diligently, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for his efforts. Reserved and shy, Stéphane Lambiel tends to build a wall between himself and others and he seems to be more receptive to older and more mature people.
He is inclined to be somewhat withdrawn and has a hard time discussing important matters with his family and close relationships. As a serious and deep thinker, Stéphane Lambiel would like to explain his views to others, but has a difficult time finding the right words.
Somewhat shy, Stéphane finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Stéphane Lambiel to establish relationships, he would rather be by himself. Stéphane prefers everything to be simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Stéphane Lambiel instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Stéphane Lambiel needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Stéphane Lambiel benefits by becoming more aware of the rhythm of the seasons and the natural world, learning to slow down and allow life to unfold in its own time. Nurturing a garden, a child, or some other living, growing thing gives Stéphane Lambiel a sense of inner balance.
Stéphane Lambiel has a tendency to be deeply suspicious, to not take anything at face value and to see hidden agendas and dark motives even where none exist! Life does not have to be a constant conflict... Stéphane needs to learn to accept things as they are.
Lambiel also needs to develop patience, peace and stability by grounding himself in his daily work and behaving consistently and reliably towards others.
It is in any involvements he has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Stéphane Lambiel is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
The following are specific activities that will support Stéphane Lambiel in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Lambiel, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Stéphane Lambiel should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems he faces. It is in Lambiel's best interest to act on his own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for him. Stéphane Lambiel needs to assert himself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Stéphane needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick himself up, and go! He also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Opposition Sun/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Venus/Asc.
N. Node in Taurus
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars