Steffi Graf
in Relationships

Steffi does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Steffi Graf would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Steffi Graf avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Graf. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Steffi, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.

Steffi Graf frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.

Graf identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

She is warm and affectionate in her relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around her. Steffi Graf is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.

Steffi Graf has a great interest in everything and everyone around her and is constantly looking for people with whom she can establish deep inner relationships. Her judgments are based on her personal feelings and she has a strong need to be with others.

In love relationships, Steffi Graf is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Steffi enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Steffi Graf responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.

Graf is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Steffi Graf thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Graf's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Steffi Graf finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable to she may not be at all attuned to her sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is, the people Steffi loves and the people Steffi wants to make love with are very different from one another. Steffi Graf may be confused about what she really needs and wants in personal relationships. Graf needs to acknowledge that she has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality, or security and commitment in love relationships but also a lot of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.

Intimacy does not come easily to Steffi Graf and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Graf does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Steffi Graf needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 12th house

Moon Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 11th house

Venus Quincunx Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn