Stanley Kubrick in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Stanley Kubrick only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Kubrick.
Stanley has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Stanley Kubrick has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Stanley Kubrick to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Stanley Kubrick has a great deal of emotional depth.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Stanley Kubrick a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Stanley's past are especially dear to him.
Stanley Kubrick may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
Stanley Kubrick takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Stanley Kubrick actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.
Although Stanley Kubrick was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Stanley's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Stanley does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Stanley Kubrick is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Stanley Kubrick has a somewhat excitable disposition and his moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Stanley Kubrick has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. He is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive him.
Stanley Kubrick tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Stanley Kubrick cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Stanley wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Stanley Kubrick is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Stanley Kubrick craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Kubrick enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Stanley Kubrick very happy. Stanley wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Stanley Kubrick may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Kubrick is a natural host or diplomat.
Stanley Kubrick shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Stanley's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Stanley Kubrick also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Stanley likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
Stanley's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Stanley Kubrick is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Kubrick is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Stanley Kubrick in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Kubrick is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Stanley Kubrick at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Kubrick is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Stanley Kubrick has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Stanley acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Stanley Kubrick is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Stanley and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Kubrick's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Stanley Kubrick longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Kubrick tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Opposition Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Opposition Mercury/Uranus
Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto
Venus in Leo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus
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