approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Stan's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Stan Laurel comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Stan Laurel - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Stan Laurel" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Stan a little better. This page describes the disguise Laurel wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Modest, unobtrusive, and often rather quiet or shy, he is a person who is content to stay in the background or to serve as an assistant, in the supporting role rather than in the lead. He is quite humble in his own assessment of himself; he seeks perfection, with a tendency to be overly self-critical. No matter how well he does something, Stan Laurel always sees the flaws in it and how it could be improved. Often Laurel will simply refuse to attempt something because he feels he cannot meet his own high standards.
Stan Laurel has an eye for detail and he gets upset when something is not done just so, usually something others consider rather inconsequential or trivial. He is hard to please and his relationships with others may suffer because of this. Stan Laurel also has refined sensitivities and is very discriminating and particular in his choice of foods, clothes, friends, artwork, etc. Order in Laurel's environment is very important to Laurel.
Laurel steps into situations rather cautiously, and not without realistically assessing all of the risks and potential advantages involved. Unless something is a safe bet, he is unlikely to dive into it. Stan Laurel tends to underestimate his own capacities and to lack confidence and trust in life, which inhibits his spontaneity. Worrying is a bad habit of his. On the other hand, Stan rarely falls flat on his face and what he does, he does very well.
Others see Stan Laurel as a self-sufficient and rather self-contained person. Laurel has a strong sense of propriety. Politeness, good manners, and correct behavior are important to him. His clear, cool, objective and non-emotional attitude is apparent to others first, and though he is really quite helpful and caring, he does not radiate much sympathy and as a result, others may not see the helpful side as readily. Stan may seem more businesslike and factual as well as more conservative than he really is at heart. He is the person others might go to for technical advice or an unbiased opinion, but not for emotional support.
He is keenly observant, intelligent, and has a great desire for learning and for self-improvement, but he is not especially ambitious and is often satisfied with a rather simple, unglamourous position in life.
Despite the fact that his core self is quite a bit different from the face the world generally sees, Stan Laurel has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant influence on people in his environment. He may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, Stan Laurel often does not get the full recognition he wishes for.
Stan Laurel has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". His personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Stan coax rather than coerce. However, if he does not get what he wants, Stan Laurel is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining, or pouting rather than stating directly what he needs, or doing for himself. Laurel seems to need others' approval first.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Square Asc.
Venus Sextile Asc.