challenges and difficulties
Skyler Shaye has a critical, cynical attitude towards many religions and philosophies. Without realizing it, she prevents herself from appreciating new viewpoints and attitudes. Shaye is more rigid and dogmatic than she realizes. Her approach may also be too intellectual or moralistic. Skyler Shaye takes her own political beliefs and spiritual philosophy very seriously, worrying and fretting if she is not 100% clear about some ideology or theory.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Skyler Shaye does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Skyler Shaye must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Somewhat shy, Skyler finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Skyler Shaye to establish relationships, she would rather be by herself. Skyler prefers everything to be simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
Skyler Shaye tends to be somewhat gloomy and may feel that life is difficult and that her will is blocked in some way. Skyler may find it hard to make decisions and to concentrate on her goals, which she may consider unworthy.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Skyler Shaye instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Skyler Shaye needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Skyler Shaye - so much so that she seeks them out at her own expense. When she is under stress, Shaye tends to look outside herself for approval or answers, and she leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge her own path through life is a key factor in her self-development.
Skyler Shaye is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about her intentions or desires, and she can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Shaye's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Skyler Shaye needs to cultivate her ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on her own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Shaye's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Skyler Shaye needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Skyler Shaye back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Sagittarius
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct Mars/MC
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun