Shelley Fabares
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Shelley Fabares only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Fabares.

Shelley has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Shelley Fabares has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Shelley Fabares to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Shelley Fabares has a great deal of emotional depth.

Fabares gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Shelley Fabares makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Shelley Fabares needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.

Shelley Fabares tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Shelley feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Shelley Fabares also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that she is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Fabares to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Shelley Fabares may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.

Shelley Fabares tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Shelley Fabares can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Shelley also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Shelley Fabares craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.

Shelley has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Shelley Fabares has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Shelley Fabares undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

In love relationships, Shelley Fabares seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Shelley, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Shelley Fabares supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Shelley that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Shelley Fabares is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Fabares is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Shelley Fabares is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Shelley uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Shelley Fabares does.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Shelley Fabares and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Shelley allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Shelley Fabares, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Shelley Fabares will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 1st house

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon