Sharmell Sullivan
in Relationships

Open and generous, Sharmell Sullivan enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Queen Sharmell rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Sharmell always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Sharmell Sullivan often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Queen Sharmell, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Sharmell Sullivan to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Sharmell's aspirations and ideals. Sharmell Sullivan also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Queen Sharmell gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Sharmell Sullivan makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Sharmell Sullivan needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.

Queen Sharmell can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Sharmell Sullivan puts up subtle walls and distances herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Queen Sharmell may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Sharmell Sullivan might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge she faces.

She is likely to be noted for her good looks and good taste in clothes. Sharmell Sullivan is able to attract and influence others because she is so pleasant and so sincere in her approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Queen Sharmell also is strongly attached to her home and family.

She is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Sharmell Sullivan does not like to be alone and she always keeps her house open for her friends and acquaintances.

In love relationships, Sharmell Sullivan desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Sharmell "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Queen Sharmell can be very demanding of her love partner. Sharmell Sullivan tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Sharmell Sullivan is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Sharmell Sullivan very happy. Sharmell wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Sharmell Sullivan may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Queen Sharmell is a natural host or diplomat.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Sharmell's nature and Sharmell Sullivan feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Queen Sharmell. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Sharmell Sullivan has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Sharmell's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Sharmell Sullivan is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Queen Sharmell is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Sharmell Sullivan and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Sharmell allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Sharmell Sullivan, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Sharmell Sullivan has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Sharmell tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.

Her attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Sharmell Sullivan loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. She may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.

Others may get the impression that Sharmell Sullivan considers personal relationships not very important, as she may pretend to have feelings for someone when she really does not. Sharmell Sullivan would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Uranus/N. Node

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC