He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Scott Foley rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Foley's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Foley may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Scott difficult to live with. Scott Foley needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Scott, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Scott Foley frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Foley identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Scott has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Foley cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Scott Foley seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Scott has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Foley can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Scott Foley has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, he is warm and friendly to everyone he meets. Foley is at peace with the world and want to share his feelings with his friends and acquaintances.
He is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate himself in solitude. Scott Foley seems to be too critical of himself and tends to generate distance from others.
In a love relationship, Scott Foley is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Scott likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Scott Foley becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Scott Foley's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Scott Foley needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Foley finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Scott is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Foley places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Scott Foley feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Intimacy does not come easily to Scott Foley and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Foley does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Scott Foley needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
When it comes to love relationships, Foley is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Scott Foley has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Scott acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Scott Foley is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Scott and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Foley's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 12th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Saturn
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus