Sarah Michelle Gellar
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Sarah Michelle Gellar has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Sarah Michelle Gellar is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Gellar for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Gellar's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Gellar. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Though she wants close relationships very much, Sarah Michelle Gellar often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Gellar is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

Gellar can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Sarah Michelle Gellar puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Gellar may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Sarah Michelle Gellar might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

In addition to Sarah Michelle's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Sarah Michelle Gellar craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Gellar rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Sarah Michelle Gellar craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Gellar also loves to feel free and unfettered.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Sarah Michelle does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Sarah Michelle Gellar is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Sarah Michelle Gellar, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Sarah Michelle does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Sarah Michelle Gellar needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating, if Sarah Michelle Gellar is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

She is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and she tries to suppress the jealousy she may feel. Sarah Michelle Gellar may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making her a bit hard and unyielding in later life.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Sarah Michelle Gellar enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Sarah Michelle wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Sarah Michelle is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Gellar places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Sarah Michelle Gellar feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Sarah Michelle Gellar in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Gellar is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Sarah Michelle Gellar at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Gellar is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Sarah Michelle Gellar has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Sarah Michelle acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Sarah Michelle Gellar to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Sarah Michelle becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Sarah Michelle Gellar really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Sarah Michelle's closest relationships.

Sensitive and compassionate, Gellar tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Sarah Michelle has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Sarah Michelle is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Sarah Michelle Gellar explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Gellar will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Sarah Michelle Gellar things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Gellar will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Sarah Michelle Gellar needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

Sarah Michelle Gellar thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Gellar relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.

Sarah Michelle Gellar tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool herself at times. Her desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and she may tries to hide her deception from others as well as from herself.

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