Sammy Davis Jr.
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Sammy Davis Jr. rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Davis Jr.'s love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Davis Jr. may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Sammy difficult to live with. Sammy Davis Jr. needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Sammy Davis Jr. has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Davis Jr. also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Sammy, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
Davis Jr. is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, Sammy Davis Jr. needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Sammy Davis Jr. also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Sammy Davis Jr. often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Although Davis Jr. gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Sammy Davis Jr. to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
There is another side to Sammy Davis Jr. as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Sammy Davis Jr. and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Sammy Davis Jr. is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
In addition to Sammy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Sammy Davis Jr. craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Davis Jr. rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Davis Jr. received was erratic and unreliable at best. Sammy Davis Jr. has had to move a lot, or Davis Jr.'s family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Sammy was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Sammy Davis Jr. may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Sammy Davis Jr. often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Davis Jr., both emotionally and physically.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Sammy Davis Jr. values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Sammy desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Davis Jr., and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Sammy Davis Jr. appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Davis Jr. is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Sammy Davis Jr. thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
He is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Sammy Davis Jr. tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If he does not keep this in control, he could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.
His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Sammy Davis Jr. causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 6th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Opposition Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
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