Elsa Benítez
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Elsa Benítez only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Benítez.

Elsa has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Elsa Benítez has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Elsa Benítez to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Elsa Benítez has a great deal of emotional depth.

Elsa Benítez may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Benítez has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Elsa Benítez wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Elsa is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Elsa has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Benítez craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Benítez and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Elsa Benítez is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

In love relationships, Elsa Benítez seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Elsa, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Elsa Benítez supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Elsa that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Elsa Benítez is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Elsa is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Elsa Benítez feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Her tastes and natural inclinations border on the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Elsa Benítez possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life of plenty, ease and comfort. Elsa may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Elsa Benítez may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Jupiter