approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Rudolph's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Rudolph Valentino comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Rudolph Valentino - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Rudolph Valentino" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Rudolph a little better. This page describes the disguise Valentino wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Rudolph Valentino will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Rudolph has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Rudolph Valentino very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Valentino is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Rudolph Valentino will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Valentino's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Rudolph Valentino appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Valentino is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Rudolph possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Rudolph Valentino - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Rudolph Valentino does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Rudolph.
Others see Rudolph Valentino as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Valentino shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Rudolph Valentino usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Rudolph Valentino has a rather generous, open, broad-minded demeanor, and he likes to do things in a big way. If he does this primarily to impress others, Rudolph will find that many people prefer to avoid him. Even without meaning to, Valentino can seem a bit arrogant or preachy.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Jupiter Square Asc.