challenges and difficulties
Ron Jeremy takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Ron enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Ron Jeremy also fears entrapment in close relationships.
His attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Ron Jeremy may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to him. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Ron may tenaciously cling to his grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
His overall outlook on life is serious, and Ron Jeremy may feel that life or God will punish him if he does not watch his steps!
Ron Jeremy takes his ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Ron has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but he can also become so involved in his imaginative, idealistic pursuits that he looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
He is inclined to exercise self-control and tries to suppress his inner excitability or irritability. Jeremy can be somewhat self-willed, though, and strive to be independent. If Ron Jeremy feels that someone is holding him down too much, he may suddenly break up the relationship.
He is likely to find it hard to make decisions, looking forward to the future with great enthusiasm on one hand, but afraid of misjudgments on the other. Never quite sure about anything, Ron Jeremy may withdraw from situations and people periodically.
Jeremy may find it difficult to relate to people and express his feelings, especially in love relationships. On one hand, Ron Jeremy wants relationships and on the other he would rather be by himself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Ron withdraw from others and feeling lonely as a result.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Ron Jeremy instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Ron Jeremy needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Ron Jeremy's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Jeremy's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Jeremy's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Jeremy's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Jeremy's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Ron Jeremy needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Jeremy's unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Ron Jeremy between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Ron Jeremy seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Jeremy's task.
The following are specific activities that will support Ron Jeremy in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Jeremy, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Ron Jeremy should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. He needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with his family or a community that can support him and give him a sense of safety and belonging.
Ron Jeremy should develop his listening skills and deepen his understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Ron Jeremy has to learn to trust his own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. He needs to care for himself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Ron Jeremy's best interest to take all that is good and helpful from his past and use it in a new way. (If he is so inclined, Ron may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts he has already developed).
Ron Jeremy has a very affectionate attitude toward others and the capacity to love a lot of people. There probably is a very deep bond between Ron and his friends, and when he falls in love, Ron Jeremy is likely to love just as deeply.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 9th house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Opposition Moon/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition Venus/Mars
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Conjunct Venus/MC