challenges and difficulties
Robson de Souza both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting himself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Robinho, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Robinho is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Robson de Souza.
Robinho takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Robson de Souza a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Robinho and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Robson de Souza will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Robinho instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Robinho needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Robinho needs to take what he has learned (either through formal education or his own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Robinho's quality of life or that of persons in his world, is of little real value. Putting Robson de Souza's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in his daily relationships, and in the multiple choices he makes every day, will enable Robinho to really test his belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Robinho is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Robinho needs to cultivate his ability to live in the present!
It is in his dealings with money, financial security, tangible assets and possessions that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above are ones Robinho needs to integrate in tangible ways: how he makes a living, building assets and a secure material base, what he does with the resources he has. Robinho should try to avoid over involvement or entanglements with other people's money matters, legal business, and personal affairs.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Robinho back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Robinho seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 7th house
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 2nd house
N. Node Opposition Uranus