challenges and difficulties
Alda doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Robert is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
He may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Robert Alda does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend himself from its dangers and its unknowns. Robert Alda must learn to overcome his ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Robert Alda instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Robert Alda needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Alda's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Robert Alda has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
It is in his public life and career that Robert Alda is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Alda's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Robert Alda achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Robert Alda in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Alda, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
He needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). Robert Alda has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. He needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. Robert Alda has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating his ability to love and to receive love.
He is well-mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Robert Alda is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Robert feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Robert Alda has a sympathetic understanding of other people and the ability to easily adapt himself to them. His emotional fulfillment is likely to come through his relationships with others and Alda will probably feel a soul-affinity with many of them.
Robert Alda has a strong desire to share his opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that he has. He may enjoy studying and developing his intellectual interests with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 12th house
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Moon/MC
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/MC