challenges and difficulties
Dyrdek is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Rob Dyrdek may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Rob.
He is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with his duty, his public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Rob Dyrdek understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and he is capable of much self-discipline and patience once he sets his sights on a goal.
But Rob Dyrdek is very judgmental and hard on himself if he fails to attain success, and he can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize his efforts.
Once he decides what he wants to do, Rob Dyrdek will pursue his goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for his deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Rob feel a little out of step with others. Rob Dyrdek takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Rob feels and how driven he is about the things that are important to him. Rob Dyrdek has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to him, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
At times Rob Dyrdek struggles with nebulous worries, insecurities and fears that may be difficult to pinpoint. Mostly, he may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of his mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Rob Dyrdek has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if his religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting himself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Rob occasionally.
Rob Dyrdek has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on his own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Dyrdek may be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express himself, thereby leaving a more negative impression than he intended.
Rob Dyrdek tends to experience inner conflicts between his responsibilities and his desires. Dyrdek may give preference to duties over desires, which makes it very difficult for him to be truly happy.
Dyrdek may find it difficult to relate to people and express his feelings, especially in love relationships. On the hand, Rob Dyrdek wants relationships yet on the other, he would rather be by himself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Rob withdraw from others and feel lonely as a result.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Rob Dyrdek instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Rob Dyrdek needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Rob Dyrdek to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Rob Dyrdek needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Rob directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Dyrdek's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Dyrdek's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Rob Dyrdek needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
Rob Dyrdek has a friendly, open and sociable demeanor and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. He may enjoy participating in artistic events and he likes to associate with art lovers.
He may have an inner fear of separation and could feel left out or ignored at times. Either Rob Dyrdek did not receive much affection while he was growing up or it had to be shared with others. Rob may find it difficult to show his love in his relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Saturn Opposition Moon/Jupiter
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Mars
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Sun/Venus
N. Node Opposition Venus/Saturn