challenges and difficulties
Coolidge is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Rita Coolidge may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Rita.
Rita Coolidge takes both her work and her health very seriously, but she may demand so much of herself at work that she compromises her health. Rita can become a workaholic, not so much because she has lofty ambitions, but because she never feels like she has done enough. Rita Coolidge is overly responsible or overly conscientious at work, so much so that she may not enjoy it at all.
Coolidge can also get overly involved in self-improvement or her health, and she tends to be a bit of a hypochondriac.
Rita Coolidge strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Rita Coolidge instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Rita Coolidge needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Rita Coolidge is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Rita Coolidge's growth. Rita Coolidge needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her work and her relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Coolidge's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The following are specific activities that will support Rita Coolidge in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Coolidge, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Rita Coolidge should foster self-discipline and learn to handle responsibility. She may shoulder an inordinate amount of responsibility as well as burdens that sometimes limit Coolidge's activities and opportunities in life. However, this is a maturing and ultimately empowering process. She is also likely to be offered positions of tremendous responsibility, whether Rita really wants such jobs or not, usually because she has invested real effort and made some sort of substantial contribution.
There may be considerable obstacles in her path - more adversity than others seem to face - and Coolidge's task is to learn to cope with pressure and persevere.
She enjoys relationships with others who can tune into the spiritual world and Rita Coolidge is likely to join groups or associations that sponsor psychics and that explore the connection with karmic influences.
Rita has the inclination to gossip and spread stories or she could be the subject of gossip herself at times. Her perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Rita Coolidge may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Coolidge constantly seems to be under tremendous pressure and she wants to achieve record performances. Because she has a strong desire to accomplish immense tasks through teamwork with others, Rita Coolidge has a tendency to demand too much of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 6th house
Saturn Square Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Conjunct Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/Pluto