approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Sable's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Rena Mero comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Rena Mero - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Rena Mero" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Sable a little better. This page describes the disguise Rena Mero wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Rena Mero will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Sable has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Rena Mero very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Rena Mero is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Rena Mero will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Rena Mero's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Rena Mero appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Rena Mero is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Sable possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Rena Mero - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Rena Mero does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Sable.
Others see Rena Mero as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Rena Mero shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Rena Mero usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Rena Mero has a sympathetic understanding of others and the ability to see through people. She is very sensitive and her emotional state depends a lot on the influence of her immediate surroundings and relationships. For this reason, others may see Sable as a somewhat unstable person.
Rena Mero tends to be somewhat inhibited and does not want to attract attention. She is likely to think that other people are more important than she is and prefers to live in seclusion.
She is very sensitive to her surroundings and inclined to be easily influenced by others. Rena Mero tends to avoid confrontations, discussions or arguments for fear that she cannot stand up to them.
Other people may consider her environment a bit strange and Rena Mero likes to surround herself with a certain air of mystery. Rena Mero tends to be very secretive and is likely to exert her power from behind the scenes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Neptune
Asc. Opposition Saturn/N. Node
Asc. Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Asc. Conjunct Neptune/Pluto