Ray (Jesse) Gordy
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Jesse should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Ray Gordy often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Ray Gordy's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Ray (Jesse) Gordy insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Jesse does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Ray (Jesse) Gordy feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Ray (Jesse) Gordy often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Ray Gordy is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

Gregarious and fun loving, he is always out to have a good time. Ray (Jesse) Gordy tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Ray (Jesse) Gordy to say no, especially when Ray Gordy's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Ray (Jesse) Gordy values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Jesse desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Ray Gordy, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Ray (Jesse) Gordy appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Jesse is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Ray (Jesse) Gordy feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Ray Gordy may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. Ray (Jesse) Gordy craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Ray Gordy, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Ray (Jesse) Gordy has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Ray Gordy tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Ray (Jesse) Gordy might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

His attitude is positive and harmonious and Ray (Jesse) Gordy impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 8th house

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Opposition Jupiter/N. Node