Marti Pellow
in Relationships

Open and generous, Marti Pellow enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Pellow rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Marti always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Marti Pellow often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Pellow, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Marti Pellow to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Marti's aspirations and ideals. Marti Pellow also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Marti Pellow has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Marti sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Marti Pellow is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Marti wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Marti Pellow tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Marti Pellow becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Pellow gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Marti Pellow to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Marti Pellow often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Pellow actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Marti Pellow to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Marti Pellow becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Pellow can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Marti's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Marti Pellow craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Pellow rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Marti Pellow craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Marti Pellow to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Pellow. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Pellow likes it that way.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Marti Pellow gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Marti Pellow may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Marti feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Marti Pellow idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Marti Pellow and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Marti shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Pellow happy.

Marti Pellow loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Marti considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well liked. At times, Marti Pellow overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Square Uranus

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 4th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter