Randy Jackson
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Randy Jackson denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Randy Jackson needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Randy Jackson also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Randy has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Randy Jackson may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Jackson's tie to his mother is very strong and Randy Jackson also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

Jackson is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, Randy Jackson needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.

In a love relationship, Randy Jackson is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Randy likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Randy Jackson becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Randy Jackson's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Randy Jackson needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Jackson finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Randy is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Jackson places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Randy Jackson feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Randy Jackson loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Randy considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Randy Jackson overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.

Randy's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Randy Jackson is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Jackson is to being left out or unappreciated.

Randy Jackson tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Jackson may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Randy Jackson is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Randy believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

Sensitive and compassionate, Jackson tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Randy has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Randy is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Randy Jackson is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.

He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Randy Jackson should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 4th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Sextile Pluto