Randolph Churchill in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Randolph Churchill only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Churchill.
Randolph has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Randolph Churchill has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Randolph Churchill to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Randolph Churchill has a great deal of emotional depth.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Randolph, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Randolph Churchill frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Churchill identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Churchill's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Randolph Churchill is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Randolph Churchill that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Churchill's neediness often drives others away. When Randolph Churchill does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Churchill will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Randolph Churchill will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Randolph Churchill enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Randolph wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Randolph Churchill loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Churchill needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. Randolph Churchill also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
Randolph has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Randolph Churchill may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.
Randolph Churchill treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Churchill strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 12th house
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 5th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Pluto
Venus Opposition N. Node/Asc.
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