Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Ralph Fiennes only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Fiennes.
Ralph has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Ralph Fiennes has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Ralph Fiennes to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Ralph Fiennes has a great deal of emotional depth.
Fiennes depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Ralph's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Ralph Fiennes may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Ralph Fiennes often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
There is another side to Ralph Fiennes as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Ralph Fiennes often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Fiennes actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Ralph Fiennes to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Ralph Fiennes becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Fiennes can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Ralph's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Ralph Fiennes craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Fiennes rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Ralph Fiennes does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Fiennes tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and his relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Ralph Fiennes enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Ralph Fiennes often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Ralph Fiennes is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Ralph has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Ralph Fiennes may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.
Ralph Fiennes has a somewhat excitable disposition and his moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Ralph Fiennes has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. He is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive him.
In love relationships, Ralph Fiennes desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Ralph "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Fiennes can be very demanding of his love partner. Ralph Fiennes tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Ralph Fiennes is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Fiennes is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Ralph Fiennes prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Ralph.
Ralph is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Ralph Fiennes very popular.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Ralph Fiennes yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Fiennes frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Ralph Fiennes does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
His attitude is positive and harmonious and Ralph Fiennes impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 7th house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Sextile Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Uranus
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 7th house
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Opposition Jupiter/N. Node