Pola Negri
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Pola Negri denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Pola Negri needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Pola Negri also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Pola Negri has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Negri also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Pola, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Pola Negri needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Negri. Pola Negri tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Pola Negri values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Pola desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Negri, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Pola Negri appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Pola Negri craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Pola loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Negri.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Pola Negri rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Pola is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Negri craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Pola Negri needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Negri is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Pola Negri has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Pola acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Negri may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Pola Negri craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Negri, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus