Phil Everly
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Phil Everly denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Phil Everly needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Phil Everly also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Phil Everly cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Phil Everly has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Phil takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

Everly is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Phil Everly needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.

Although Phil Everly was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Phil's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Everly's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Phil Everly is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Phil Everly has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, he is warm and friendly to everyone he meets. Everly is at peace with the world and want to share his feelings with his friends and acquaintances.

Phil Everly seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Phil likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.

In love relationships, Phil Everly seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Phil, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Phil Everly supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Phil that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Phil Everly is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Phil Everly and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Phil shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Everly happy.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Phil Everly in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Everly is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Phil Everly at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Everly is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Phil Everly has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Phil acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Phil Everly to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Phil becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Phil Everly really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Phil's closest relationships.

Phil Everly has a need to mix with people expressing the same feelings and having the same interests that he has. Phil shares his artistic concerns with others and is likely to join groups or associations that deal with art in some way.

His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Phil Everly loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 5th house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune/MC

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 4th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mercury/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune