Peter Buck
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Peter should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Buck often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Buck's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Peter Buck insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Peter does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Peter Buck feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Peter Buck a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Peter's past are especially dear to him.

Peter Buck may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Buck is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Peter Buck needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Peter Buck also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Peter Buck often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Buck received was erratic and unreliable at best. Peter Buck has had to move a lot, or Buck's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Peter was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Peter Buck may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Peter Buck often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Buck, both emotionally and physically.

Although Peter Buck was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Peter's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Peter does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Peter Buck is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Peter Buck, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Peter does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Peter Buck needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating if Peter Buck is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Peter Buck thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Peter Buck is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Peter must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.

In love relationships, Peter Buck desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Peter "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Buck can be very demanding of his love partner. Peter Buck tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Peter Buck is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Peter Buck often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Peter. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Peter Buck may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Peter Buck - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Peter Buck has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, he has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. His outgoing personality puts others at ease and Buck tends to discuss love and beauty with them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Sextile Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Opposition Uranus

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mars/Saturn

Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 12th house

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter