challenges and difficulties
Paula Yates has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Paula is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but she may lack the capacity for joy and play. Paula Yates often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Yates' that may inhibit her a great deal. Paula Yates must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob her of the playful, imaginative side of life.
It may be difficult for Paula Yates to play spontaneously or just let her hair down, for she tends to inhibit that side of her by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression she is making.
Paula may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for she wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged and recognized as special in some way. Though she may indeed be outstanding, Paula Yates also needs to learn to relax and enjoy herself more.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Paula Yates instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Paula Yates needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Paula stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Paula Yates has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Paula Yates feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Paula Yates calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Paula Yates needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Paula Yates is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Yates' relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
She is highly emotional and tends to display her feelings in a theatrical way. Paula Yates seems to enjoy being somewhat eccentric and finds it difficult to adapt herself to others. Although she may seek emotional fulfillment, Paula does not do well in relationships and teamwork surroundings.
Paula Yates has a strong desire to share her opinions with others and is inclined to seek out people who have the same ideas that she has. She may enjoy studying and developing her intellectual interests with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 5th house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Mercury/MC