Paul de Leeuw
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Paul de Leeuw only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for de Leeuw.

Paul has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Paul de Leeuw has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Paul de Leeuw to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Paul de Leeuw has a great deal of emotional depth.

de Leeuw gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Paul de Leeuw makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Paul de Leeuw needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

Paul de Leeuw has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Paul out for help, sympathy or advice. Paul de Leeuw is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

Paul de Leeuw craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Paul de Leeuw to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to de Leeuw. His domestic life may be very unstable - but de Leeuw likes it that way.

His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Paul de Leeuw feels a certain soul affinity with them. Paul has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.

Paul has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Paul de Leeuw to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Paul de Leeuw enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Paul wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Paul de Leeuw, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to de Leeuw and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Paul de Leeuw appreciates artistic people.

His feelings are very powerful and Paul de Leeuw expresses them vividly. His romantic relationships are likely to be very passionate and deep. Paul de Leeuw has a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships and may be driven by inner compulsion rather than rational thinking.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 11th house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Aries

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Opposition Moon/Pluto