Paul Verlaine
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Paul Verlaine inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Paul wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Verlaine lavishes on those he cares about. Paul Verlaine has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Paul Verlaine hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Verlaine works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Paul, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.

Paul has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Verlaine cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Paul Verlaine flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Paul Verlaine feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Paul Verlaine to learn. Paul Verlaine should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Paul Verlaine insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

In love relationships, Paul Verlaine is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Paul enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Paul Verlaine responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Verlaine is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Paul Verlaine prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Paul.

Paul is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Paul Verlaine very popular.

Paul Verlaine is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Paul Verlaine pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Paul Verlaine loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Paul considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well liked. At times, Paul Verlaine overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets it.

Paul Verlaine has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Paul frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Verlaine can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Verlaine's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

Others may get the impression that Paul Verlaine considers personal relationships not very important, as he may pretend to have feelings for someone when he really does not. Paul Verlaine would make a very good actor playing the part of a lover.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 10th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 7th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Conjunct Neptune/MC