Patrick J. Fitzgerald
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Patrick J. Fitzgerald has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Patrick J. Fitzgerald is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Fitzgerald for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Fitzgerald's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Fitzgerald. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Patrick, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
Patrick J. Fitzgerald frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Fitzgerald identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Fitzgerald received was erratic and unreliable at best. Patrick J. Fitzgerald has had to move a lot, or Fitzgerald's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Patrick was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Patrick J. Fitzgerald may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Patrick J. Fitzgerald often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Fitzgerald, both emotionally and physically.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Patrick J. Fitzgerald values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Patrick desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Fitzgerald, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Patrick J. Fitzgerald appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Fitzgerald is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Patrick J. Fitzgerald thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
There can be a lack of harmony or satisfaction in Fitzgerald's romantic relationships - not necessarily a great deal of open conflict, but simply an underlying tension or discontent. This is because the people Patrick J. Fitzgerald finds likeable, lovable, and agreeable to he may not be at all attuned to his sexual tastes and needs. Another, more direct way of saying this is, the people Patrick loves and the people Patrick wants to make love with are very different from one another. Patrick J. Fitzgerald may be confused about what he really needs and wants in personal relationships. Fitzgerald needs to acknowledge that he has some conflicting desires (such as a partner who is very gentle and sensitive but also a powerful, dominant personality, or security and commitment in love relationships but also a lot of freedom and excitement.) Trying to satisfy both sides of the equation can be a tricky challenge.
Patrick J. Fitzgerald has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Patrick frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Fitzgerald can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Fitzgerald's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Patrick J. Fitzgerald finds it easy to demonstrate his love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Fitzgerald tends to reveal his most personal feelings to people in his intimate circle of friends.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 12th house
Moon Opposition Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Quincunx Mars
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
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